As a married tgirl who has been dressing since the age of at least five, there have always been turbulent times. The questions have always been more numerous than the answers, but somehow or other i have managed to reach my forties without going completely insane - although it has been touch and go at times. Being told by a gender counsellor ten years ago that i was borderline transexual only added to those, but i made a choice that transitioning was not the way i wanted to go.<\/p>\n
My current crisis is one which hopefully some on here could give me some guidance on. I'm married and like my married life. She knows i dress and accepts although doesnt participate, although she doesnt know about Tanya. My problem is that over recent months (and there have been similar spells over the last few years although not as deep), being Tanya is all i can think about or want to be. My home life is suffering, my job is suffering and i can see a time where the stack of cards will come perilously close to toppling. The problem is that i seem to have forgotton, or dont want to balance the two halves of my life without one dominating the other.<\/p>\n
Any thoughts or suggestions greatly welcomed<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","topic-tag":[],"class_list":["post-1930","topic","type-topic","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/1930","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/topic"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/1930\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1930"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"topic-tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic-tag?post=1930"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}