{"id":1957,"date":"2014-01-20T11:48:42","date_gmt":"2014-01-20T11:48:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/forums\/discussion\/dating-sites-declaring-you-are-a-crossdresser"},"modified":"2014-01-20T11:48:42","modified_gmt":"2014-01-20T11:48:42","slug":"dating-sites-declaring-you-are-a-crossdresser","status":"publish","type":"topic","link":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/forums\/discussion\/dating-sites-declaring-you-are-a-crossdresser","title":{"rendered":"dating sites-declaring you are a crossdresser"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>After finding out I am well and truly in \"Friendsville\" with a new GG friend who has been helping with Melissa, I have been trying a new dating site.  I am on there in my guy identity but there is section where they ask \"the most private thing I am willing to admit is?\" and I put that I have been known to \"frock up on occasion and know how hard it is to walk in heels\".<br \/>\nI told my brother in law about that (and he knows about Melissa and we he is supportive of me and we talk about all sorts of stuff) and he said I was crazy for doing it.  I said how denying those feelings for someone else leads to anger, frustration and a LOT of resentment and it just eats away at you.<br \/>\nI said that I am sick of hiding it and have decided to try being upfront over it.  It probably will count against me on a mainstream dating site but what I am doing sure as hell isn't working and so I have to try a different approach.<br \/>\nHe said I will have to try and deny those feelings if I want to have any chance of meeting someone.  He means well but doesn't understand.<br \/>\nHas anyone who is single (or while single) joined a mainstream dating site or agency and declared that they are a crossdresser or transgendered?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","topic-tag":[],"class_list":["post-1957","topic","type-topic","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/1957","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/topic"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/1957\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1957"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"topic-tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic-tag?post=1957"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}