{"id":641,"date":"2008-08-17T02:19:45","date_gmt":"2008-08-17T02:19:45","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/forums\/discussion\/what-is-the-trick-to-getting-out-in-public"},"modified":"2008-08-17T02:19:45","modified_gmt":"2008-08-17T02:19:45","slug":"what-is-the-trick-to-getting-out-in-public","status":"publish","type":"topic","link":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/forums\/discussion\/what-is-the-trick-to-getting-out-in-public","title":{"rendered":"What is the trick to getting out in public?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi all,  It really dis-heartens me to read a lot of the profiles and threads and realise that we all love what we do but are too afraid to go out in public, presumably worried about ridicule. I myself love to dress up in fine clothing and feel really special, but when it comes to actually stepping out it all becomes too much and I back out. So, how do you do it? Does it help to go with a friend or are we better off on our own, or perhaps several friends going to a coffee shop for a cuppa. It is difficult in a small town where nearly everybody knows you. Do I just slowly add more fem clothing to what I wear under my male clothes until one day I find myself out there in full dress? Does the wig and makeup help, do you think, in hiding an identity? Whats the trick?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"template":"","topic-tag":[],"class_list":["post-641","topic","type-topic","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/641","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/topic"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic\/641\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=641"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"topic-tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tgr.net.au\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic-tag?post=641"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}