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Enjoying the company of another trannie/crossdresser
Does anyone else get the same sheer pleasure when they are fully transformed so much that all you want to do is all fem. I have no problem when males make advances to me but my ultimate pleasure is when I am enjoying the intimate company of another trannie/crossdresser. I realise that there are the purists who say that sex shouldn’t be part of your transformation but I disagree strongly I believe that sex is a natural progression when you are fem.
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Quote:Does anyone else get the same sheer pleasure when they are fully transformed so much that all you want to do is all fem.
Isn’t that the essence of why we do it?
Quote:I have no problem when males make advances to me but my ultimate pleasure is when I am enjoying the intimate company of another trannie/crossdresser.I’m quite the opposite. I find males quite repulsive and I crossdress to escape the repulsive male within. Nothing could be more repulsive to me than the thought of intimacy with a male, regardless of my own appearance or theirs.
I quite enjoy the social company of other crossdressers, regardless of how well or how poorly they pass. The simple fact that they make the effort to present themselves in a feminine form is the important thing. They, like me, are making an effort to hide the male within. Intimacy would ruin that.
Quote:I realise that there are the purists who say that sex shouldn’t be part of your transformation but I disagree strongly I believe that sex is a natural progression when you are fem.I’d say that depends where you’re going. There are many destinations on the transgender road.
Sex is typically one of the very first parts of crossdressing. It is something that some never progress past, being content to wear underwear and dress no further.
Some progress from this towards the direction of dressing provocatively deliberately to seek sexual interaction. This direction, taken to its extreme, can take the form of CD or TS prostitution.
Others progress instead towards passing convincingly and comprehensively, often losing the sexual aspect entirely. Some of these progress to become TSes, while others remain CDs. Most remain interested in sex, but separate it from their gender presentation. The TS extreme of this can be the post-op who breaks all connection with their past and re-establishes themselves as if they are the genetic female that they appear to be.
Alice
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Quote:I believe that sex is a natural progression when you are fem.
I believe that sex is just a natural part of life. If dressing enhances that experience for you, then more power to you.
For myself, sex has never been an intergral part of my dressing, with boys girls or other trannies. I used to dress to feel female, now I “dress” as a normal part of my every day existence.
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Quote:Some of these progress to become TSes, while others remain CDs..
Whilst I agree with most of what you have written, I do disagree with this. A person simply does not progress to “become” a TS. I believe that you are either born TS or you aren’t. Crossdressing is a whole different world to being transexual and one doesn’t lead to another.
Quote:The TS extreme of this can be the post-op who breaks all connection with their past and re-establishes themselves as if they are the genetic female that they appear to be.True this is the goal of many TS’s, but few if any ever really achieve this. The experiences of being male stay with you your whole life no matter how much you try to deny them. I never plan to lose my past. With 2 teenage daughters and a loving and supportive family that would be an impossible task!
Cathii
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Quote:Quote:Some of these progress to become TSes, while others remain CDs..
Whilst I agree with most of what you have written, I do disagree with this. A person simply does not progress to “become” a TS. I believe that you are either born TS or you aren’t. Crossdressing is a whole different world to being transexual and one doesn’t lead to another.
You’re right. I didn’t write that as well as I could have. For many TSes, CDing is a denial phase that they go through. They try to pretend that they are only a CD, sometimes for decades. Some never leave that stage of denial while others overcome the denial to become the woman that they know deep down they should have been all along.
I have personally been accused of being a TS in denial because I dress “too convincingly for a CD”!
Some experts say that CDs and TSes are often indistinguishable early on. The stages of behaviour can be the same even if the motivation is totally different.
Alice
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I’m not so sure if I totally agree with this name of transgender for all crossdressers. Trans to me means across, so transgender is across the genders, or across the sexes. I for one have been cross dressing casually as far back as I can remember, since childhood, and never once have felt female, or desired to be one. I just totally enjoy wearing some of the clothes that females are lucky to be able to as a natural part of there gender. Basically, skirts, heels, stockings, jewellery, etc. I am not interested in the lingerie, and underwear. I am also lucky to have a loving wife who accepts me as I am, in fact She has said occasionally that I look cute?
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This is a fascinating topic….I do relate to some comments while not to others. I do feel female when I dress completely and it just feels so right. I however also find I am not attracted to males and quite detest the thought being intimate with a male.
I have fantasised at times in the past how wonderful it would be to be attracted to a male but as a real woman and being able to give oneself totally and completely.
Do I sound totally confused…….well we are what we are so I hope I am never asked to “PLEASE EXPLAIN” because I don’t think I can
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Hello all you lovely girls,
I think we’re quite justified in being confused…here we are, knowing that we’re to a greater or lesser extent female, living in male bodies, in a world that clings to the old paradigm of two genders, bursting to express who we really are, desperately seeking the understanding that we need to feel like we really belong…who wouldn’t feel confused!
But the thing to remember is this…we have a gift that is denied to the rest of the world…we are the pioneers, the frontrunners, the leading edge of a new paradigm.
We are the new breed. We are the beginning of a new race..the gender that will overcome the restrictions of the past and wipe out the ridiculous distinction of the sexes…we are the real, full-spirited population of this planet.
Somebody once said “Behind every forward-thinking individual there stand a thousand mediocre souls appointed to be guardians of the past.”
Wow, how’s that for big thinking…but that’s who we are…no wonder we’re confused…there isn’t a path for us to follow, there isn’t a pattern forged by previous warriors to adhere to… we’re in the vanguard, the front lines, the leading edge.
And in every human endeavour, from the conquest of space to the developer of decent shoes that will bear the strain of male weight, there are those few brave individuals who have the courage, self-respect and sheer guts to say “We are here, we are strong, we are woman!”
Bless us all,
Clare
