Are you interested in men?

[Anonymous]

Thanks Dee, wasn’t going to say that, but yes, that’s me as well… have previously been happy to give pleasure rather than take, as males naturally are inclined.
Today, with good levels of E, that’s now set in stone !

Am I looking for it? Nope, but feel I’m susceptible to a skilful seduction. Equally, from either.

[Tracey_1]

As Tracey there is no doubt I feel bisexual. Having men attracted to me reaffirms my femininity and I love the attention but it only happens for me on the internet. I have several male admirers and one very special guy with whom I have had a very loving relationship for 5 years. He makes my dressing so much more meaningful and enjoyable. When I’m not being Tracey I don’t have an interest in guys. This seems to be a reasonably common trait with crossdressers.

Tracey

[Veronica]

Hi Tracey,

I too have been in a long-term relationship with one guy and have found it personally validating and emotionally fulfilling. However, like so many gurls, when I’m not dressed, it’s the genetic females that seem to draw my attention exclusively. I guess it’s another example of the sheer complexity and fluidity of sexual behaviour. Trying to use nice, neat categories to discuss sex is like trying to use a fishing net to carry water; it just ain’t going to work.

Veronica

[JaneHenderson]

Had two nights out last weekend, wondering about this question. To my delight, sexiness and desire once again trumped gender.

[dee88]

LOL Jane

[Anonymous]

Hey Alice ,
as to being attracted to men I couldnt agree more – I find masculinity repulsive too just as you described whether im in male or female mode ,UGH ! .My mother ,crazy as she was , had the right idea when she said ( often ) the only way to stop wars and other obscene violence was a form of androgeny for those born male and females should rule 0 with the exception of those like Thatcher
Suzz

[Adrian]

I’m closing this thread off, it has wandered far from the original post, and for so long people have started to post twice!
But more importantly we must acknowledge that being transgender can involve wanting to be a male (whatever that might mean). And so making comments about masculinity being repulsive is close to attacking the valid life choices others make. This is an unmoderated forum but that doesn’t mean it is not subject to the Acceptable Conduct Policy. By locking the thread now hopefully I can deter others from exploring in this forum their negative attitudes towards men.