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Coming out as a cross dresser
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I think Carol makes a good point. The timing should suit your personal circumstances. I felt pressured into telling my wife by a counsellor and I fumbled and it did not go as well as it should have and it became more about dealing with anger than the issues between us.
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Martina wrote:I pity those who live secret lives in the closet or whose partners have difficulty accepting them as they are and will be forever more. That’s a tragedy.
There is a tendency in this and other forums to express sympathy to those who do not have accepting wives. The danger is for those of us who have wives who do not tolerate let alone accept our dressing to feel that our femme lives are not as ‘good’ or as satisfying.
I know that is not the intent of those with accepting wives but there are many in the same situation as me who should be assured that you can gently and patiently love your wife while fulfilling your need to express your femme self.
I posted a little more of my story to this thread.
http://forum.tgr.net.au/cms/forum/F156/6115-gaining-confidence-and-coming-out-to-family#26608
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Of course we should tell a partner early on in the relationship. To not do so is tantamount to deception I think. Better to lose a POTENTIAL girlfriend than a wife!
