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TgR Wall Forums M2F Toolkit Going out in public Driving “en femme” , wow, over 400 views and heaps of likes

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    21/09/2015 at 1:25 pm

    In the early days of Sammie, I would only head out in the relative safety of my car. Those times, I thought of everything – full change of clothes, make up remover and all on the back seat in easy reach. However, these days I don’t mind if I am noticed – more that my male persona won’t be recognised by family or colleagues. If the car was to die, I would just deal with it. No point in running away or hiding – if I did, I should just stay indoors and miss out seeing the world.

    (P.S. I am sure my mind will change if I have a bad experience that rocks my confidence level)

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    24/09/2015 at 3:59 pm

    I have been driving around “EnFemme” for a number of years, since I have had the time to dress more often I drive 2-3 times a week fully dressed and love it. I go out for coffee, Go up to in-laws place when they are away to look after animals about 4 hr drive do it fully dressed and stop for petrol and food, no one bats an eyelid, however the other night I got pulled over for a booze bus set-up and was asked for my license the policeman looked at my male photo, looked at me, smiled and said you look gorgeous have a great night, and patted my hand quickly and gently, and sent me on my way, I am 67 but when dressed don’t look much past 40 many tell me, I have a regular lover now, and we go out together every week, somewhere really public, and no one says anything, except him of course, always the flatterer but I feel really confident when speaking to staff at the restaurants and they don’t seem to care, I always dress impeccably love shortish skirts/dresses as I have really good young looking legs, often use Sally Hansen spray tan and it makes them look fantastic, and of course high heels, I always make sure I am wearing some elegant rings, on my hands, necklace and earrings, etc, I can produce a nice cleavage so I often wear low cut tops or dresses, I have never been so confident as I am now, and having a guy to go out with regularly makes it a joy to be dressed and driving around. Love to all you brave ones keep it up and enjoy the hard work we do to look as good as we can.

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    09/10/2015 at 12:05 am

    Never had a breakdown, yet (touch wood) but drive a lot en femme and never worried. Think that racv would have seen the lot by now and most likely not worry

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    09/10/2015 at 6:51 am

    A couple of years back I broke down outside Warwick. I looked atrocious because I lived on the road. I was fat and muscly and had awful clothes on. Definitely still in the early stages of transition even though I’d been going for a year and half.

    Anyway the nrma guy was really nice. He was also the mechanic. He was a Christian but he was so kind to me. I have plus care so I went to the motel. The woman was angry, the man just laughed.

    Anyway, I was really blessed with that mechanic. He was a good good man.

    Now days I’m more passable and dolled up usually so it doesn’t matter as much.

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    13/10/2015 at 10:51 am

    hey all.
    For the record.
    I have fully transitioned and, I am an emergency roadside mechanic, can’t say for who, but a big company.
    So, if any of you break down in my area, you may see me.
    If that gives anyone any comfort.

    Just saying.

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    14/10/2015 at 6:48 am

    Michelle,

    In your past life in your job, (before transitioning), did you ever have to assist any “broken down crossdressers”, as in their cars, not their appearance, tho I suppose both are possible. But not here on TGR, of course..

    If you did how did it all work out??

    Regards

    Caty

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    14/10/2015 at 9:50 am

    Actually, no , well not that I noticed anyway. However, the other way sorta.
    I was in the process of transitioning , and this particular day, I had just changed the tyre on a ladies car.
    I went back to my van and started writing the docket, and the lady popped in the other side of my van, and she noticed my handbag on the floor.
    She a asked me, do you normally carry a handbag ?
    I replied quite openly, yes I do, I am transgender.
    And she was fine with it even saying good for you.
    That was the early days, and had FFS just a few months later.

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