Has anyone else had dreams about being female for real?

[Anonymous]

Well Cheets yes I have had those dreams and they are getting more frequent and more sexual

[Anonymous]

I had one, dead true, that was incredibly vivid .. I was a Doctor Who female companion He was so impressed when I took out a Dalek.

And another that I was a starship Captain .. also female.

Both, how shall we say it .. a bit busty. Funny thing the mind.

[Anonymous]

Hi Abbey Hi Lisa just glad to see I am not alone. Yes the mind is a wicked thing at times. 😈

[Anonymous]

My dreams are a mix of me being either male, female or neither. For example in one night I can have three or four dreams, one will be female the other male and another from an indeterminable POV or just unrelated to me.
Sometimes being a guy in a dream can feel like a set back but then I just accept that it will take time for my subconscious to understand this whole change thing, the whole change of point of view on ..self reflection.
To have this dream all your life and then actually experience it and live it can be very …unexplainable. To have people refer to you as she and her etc.
The dream was always there and to have it become reality after so many years of accepting or thinking it will always be a dream. I’m still getting my head around it myself! Let a lone my subconscious! Time.

[Anonymous]

I agree with Muffin. Even when I was fulltime female I would be male in my dreams until my subconscious caught up. Then for a while I could be either gender with some dreams playing out my fears or experances of the last few weeks.

I seem to have common places that I goto in my dreams, and some of there places I have dreamt about many times and it was these places that it took a lot for my subconscious to change my gender.

After GRS my subconscious has accepted my change and I see myself as female in my dreams all the time now.

From when I was young I had the odd dream that I was female, but I did not remember too many when I woke up.

xxx

Kelly Jones

[Anonymous]

Kelly and Muffin its a strange fact I have to agree with you, when the dreams end they fade so fast its more shaddows, but I felt nothing but joy for a very short space of time, I do recal that.

[Anonymous]

I used to have a very strange dream that repeated itself over and over within the dream and also on many many different occasions.

In the dream i was a young girl standing in between two people and holding their hands. I could clearly feel breathe smell touch and be the person i was in the dream. The people i was with i thought were my parents yet they were not my parents. They were shadows with no detail yet strangely not scary.

I estimate i was between 10-12 years of age in this dream (which started happening around that age and continued until i was an adult).
Another twist to this dream is i always woke crying afterwards, not because of the realisation i did not have a female body etc but because of the people in the dream.

Mmm anyoo any Psychologists want to have a go at working that one out, i never did x

[Anonymous]

I’m going to have a go at this as I love dreams and dream interpretation. Though with the lack of info I’ll no doubt be completely off ..but anyways..

I guess in relation to how I felt regarding parents/elders/guardians when I was young. I can see how the shadows could represent what your parents could become if you became that little girl/yourself.
The fear and emotional stress that you would go through if your parents didn’t accept you.
I felt the same way, I would of never said a word as I felt it was so wrong, almost punishable by death. That I would of been sent away if I mentioned it.
It wasn’t until I was in my 20’s that I realised it was quite normal to feel what I did and that I could do something about it. But I digress..
The waking up crying would be your subconscious’ response to seeing your parents as shadows/not existing completely with you.
The dream of you is there, the way you would love to see yourself, there is just doubt of the ones that care for you accepting you as your true self. And a fear of abandonment from them if you became yourself.
That’s how I see it. There could be other more plausible reasons.

[Anonymous]

Thankyou for that Muffin very interesting for sure.

More detail for you if you wish that happened within my dream:

I was always wearing pink(nothing amazing in itself) but maybe more obvious for a lesser obvious reason, if that makes any sense.

I was at a circus sometimes and i often wanted to tightrope but again i am scared of heights in real life so this is bizzare.
Overwhelming feeling in the dream is of peace, relaxation and happiness and just so real, the dream was so real for me it was like it actually happened within my memory after i had woken.

The circus was not always in the dream but i can remember subtle changes in the dream itself. For example i can remember falling over and the hands that held me stopped me.
Another interesting thing is it was always a first person dream, i was always the girl looking through her eyes, i knew it was me.

It actually made me think at the times it happened that i had been there for real and it had existed yet obviously it did not…

Many thanks x

[Anonymous]

I had a dream once I was pregnant. Now I’m not terribly clucky, but it stayed with me and I was sad when I woke up and it wasn’t true

Over the years I’ve had dreams that disturbed me terribly. Kind of abstract but about my femminity being denied or rejected

I hope I never have another one

cheers
Sarah

[Anonymous]

Hi Sarah its odd I had no longing for children, suspect thats why I have cats, But when the dream lingers it sort of makes you wonder what if?

Michelle I never liked the circus even as a child. So the bright lights would freak me out! 😯

Muffin its nice to try logic, but dreams are never logic its sad to say.

[Anonymous]

Quote:

Muffin its nice to try logic, but dreams are never logic its sad to say.

“dreams are never logic”, do you mean logical?
How can you be so sure? Citation??
But anyway I do believe I never said that they were. Sad to say.
Just became you have a go at something doesn’t mean you’re stating it to be THE answer, especially when you claim that you are just “having a go”.
:S

[Anonymous]

Hi Muffin nope not having a go at you gosh I suspect I did not get my answer right.

But what I was saying its bitch when I try to place logic to my dreams. thats all. Peace Sorry if I offended.

[Anonymous]

I see dreams as a metaphor for repressed emotional issues within the subconscious. To me even though they can seem illogical I believe it’s possible to gain some interpretation that can make sense within your awakened mind, or conscious mind should I say.

I have been made aware of irrational fears through my own dream symbols/interpretations.

I see the subconscious as being very overprotective and almost robotic in it’s interpretations of what it takes in, even though it’s referred to as the feeling mind. I can understand how emotions can become repressed as I know that the subconscious can interpret something like an acted/scripted murder scene in a movie/tv show as being real. You can feel your heart racing and you can feel that it’s real even though a part of you knows it’s not, that’s your subconscious freaking out.
Well that’s how I see it personally, just to clarify my original post.

If there is something that counters this idea then I’m open to it!!

[Anonymous]

No I haven’t had dreams of being a genetic girl, but I have had some very vivid dreams of coming out. I can’t remember much of the detail (I always lose it pretty quick after the dream) but I can remember that some of the exeperience was very, very good and some of it was just awful.

I do remember one thing, though: trying to hold a door shut while there were all of these other people on the other side trying to get in.