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Help please – my wife and Angela
Hi ladies,
I have run into a delima and would very much like some advice on how to handle it. You see my wife has known about Angela for a long time and at first she didn’t seem to mind although it was mostly in the bedroom and she let me wear stockings and panties when we went out which she seemed to enjoy. Then all of a sudden she went cold on the idea and would start arguments about angela.
Anyway just a few weeks ago she started to show some interest in Angela again saying that i should organise a weekend away and to bring Angela’s gear with us, I don’t know what started this again, weather i was sleep talking or something lol, But i think she would freak out if she knew how much sexy gear Angela has Hidden in the back of the work car in a box, And i love getting the chance, however brief it is, to dress up as Angela. I think she might want to get me to get rid of Angela again, but this can’t happen as i love being Angela to much these days and how i feel when i get dressed as her.
I also love talking to the girls on TR as it is a lot of fun having a chat with like minded girls.
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Take care and have a very merry christmas and be safe.
Love Angela xx -
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Hi Angela, Perhaps a little at a time and your wife and your wife may be more accepting. My wife was a little upset at first but now fully accepts Sue and even helps me with fashion and make up. Keep male and female roles seperate so your wife never has to be romantic with Angela. Introduce new things one at a time and ask your wife for help. Take the wind out of her sails so to speak but uppermost don’t leave her out.
Hope this helps
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Hi Angela
I can say from the outset that I have been where you are, i laways likened it to a rollercoaster ride, when it was good it was great but when the ride got tough it was as scary as hell
My advice would be to talk to your partner and find our her fears, i could list here the probale response but that is something you need to work out with your partner.
As a guide however what alot of us and I was guilt as the next in doing this, is that we have found something great in our life, for once we feel whole and want to share it with everyone especially the people close to us. But here is the thing, did you meet your partner as Angelia or as your male persona? I suspect the later and my appoligies if it was the former, your partner was living the dream that all women are brought up with find a man form relationship etc but then bomb shell he is really part time she this sets off a million alarms bells in her head. All of a sudden she has to question her own sexuality ( and the majority of women are straight)
, morals, society expectations, what her family/friends/children will think if they find out, does he really want to go the whole way could I live with another woman? the intial reaction is I can cope with this, I will try and give it a chance, that’s when the roller coaster starts. For any chance to suceed you need to be totally honest on who you are and where you want all this to go and let her set the pace, i wish you both well and hope that it all comes to a place that you are both happy.hugz
Rhi
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Thanks ladies for your advice, i’ve over the years tried most of your suggestions and dispite my wife saying that we must talk about my “problem” it has not been brought up except when she has had a chardy or two to many and then it becomes an issue.
My wife has known right from the start that i liked to wear lingerie and to dress up in womens clothes and as i have said before even encouraged it at the start. I have found the need to dress more and more as time has gone by and as Rhi has said it does make me feel as one with myself.
If i am honest with myself i am happy with being Angela and all i would like is for someone to accept me as a person who has a desire to get all fem and girly every now and then.
Once again thanks for your comments and i wish everyone a very happy New Year and good luck for 2009
