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  • I WOULD IF I COULD- A CD’s wishlist!!

    Posted by Anonymous on 05/03/2014 at 4:49 am

    Hi everyone,

    I WOULD love to be able to be waxed until I was hairless. Until summer came and all my male mates “twigged” that I don’t have any body hair.

    I WOULD wear female undergarments full time, perhaps sans bra as without forms it would not fit properly. Going back to rough socks and jocks after time as Caty in lovely soft feminine fabrics, is always a “body shock”!!!

    I WOULD, sleep each night in female nightwear, but perhaps not on really hot summer nights. Tho if I was waxed, I could wear that shorty nightie..

    I WOULD enjoy sleeping, (almost every night), with my breast forms attached and braless. Such a femme feeling

    I WOULD love to “dress for dinner“ at least one night a week. Hair, make up, long evening gown or cocktail dress

    I WOULD like to go out to dinner dressed as Caty, but doubt if it would ever work. Even tho’ many of my TGR friends say I would “pass”, as soon as I opened my mouth…

    I WOULD love my SO to accept my female side for what it is. Just an expression of a vital part of my life, in which I only wish to indulge on a part time basis. And to discuss “female” things with me just like two ladies enjoying a chat. It would be nice to go shopping with her too, but not in Caty mode….She would find it too embarrassing.

    I WOULD, if she accepted Caty, to be able to store all Caty’s clothes jewellery, shoes, make up etc “in the open” and not hidden away in their “hidey holes” as I do now. The design of our house dictated that one of the bedrooms has a HUGE walk in robe. I can see it all now. Dresses and my period gowns on hangers, lingerie, shoes and jewellery on the shelves. wigs on wig stands etc. etc. Oh and a lock on the door, in case of “visiting prying eyes”. But alas alack it cannot be…

    I WOULD enjoy just lounging around in female casual clothes (within the house) if and when the mood suited me.

    I WOULD love to come out to all my friends and family without fear of reprisals or ridicule. But I know this would not be feasible, especially if it adversely impacted on my SO….

    I WOULD love to stop telling my SO fibs about “what I did today” whilst she is away. IE I cannot go into a detailed description of my hairstyle, make up and what I wore/am wearing.

    I WOULD love if she could accept Caty, to indulge me in my black sense of humour with crossdressing matters. For it is always better to laugh than to cry.

    I WOULD (and still intend to enjoy), professional makeovers/photo sessions on a regular basis, including the times I can indulge in my penchant for period fashion. (Lady Catherine lives!!!). If I ever had someone who would dress as the bride to my Mother of The Bride, that would be even more fun.. I’m sure I could get the tissues out at the appropriate moments!!!!

    I WOULD (real fantasy this one), enjoy playing guitar in a band with 3 or 4 other crossdressers. I think I’d be more Carole King than Madonna, but the thought appeals….(Ever-ly Bros vs “Never-be” Sisters!!)

    I WILL indulge in some “discreet personal shopping” with the major dept stores this year. I have already contacted both and they will assign someone from the store to “take me around”.

    I WOULD NOT insist that my SO indulge in any “intimacy” whilst I was dressed as Caty. She needs the man in her life as much as I need her as the woman in my life.

    I WOULD NOT want to transition/ go on HRT.. Tho I fully support those who need to take this path in life. I have too much fun and have too much of a good “male” life to want to take this course of action.

    I HAVE NOT (Since I got “sprung” a few weeks back), said anything to my SO about it all and she likewise me. “Tis better it stays that way.

    Anyone have anything they would like to add to the above..

    Happy Dressing, (I know I’m happily dressed right now!!)

    Caty :D

    Anonymous replied 10 years, 10 months ago 2 Members · 7 Replies
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  • Anonymous

    Guest
    06/03/2014 at 2:11 pm

    I would love to be asked to slow dance with a nice man and to feel his arms around me as we danced to some lovely music

    I would love to be able to confidently go shopping while dressed and try on clothes to make sure they fit before I paid for them (My bad guesses for size is a lucky streak for the charity clothes bins)

    I would love to be able to sit in a coffee shop and have coffee and cake with one or two close girlfriends

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    07/03/2014 at 12:50 am

    Hi everyone(again)

    Just one addition and this falls under the category of, “’tis better to laugh than to cry”

    Given I’m well into middle age, why cant “male pattern baldness” extend to my legs and arms?????

    Would solve SO many problems!!!!

    Happy dressing

    caty

  • Deleted User

    Deleted User
    07/03/2014 at 5:01 am

    Outstanding list, will definitely consider some if these for myself.
    CD wedding has always been something I wanted to try/do. Doing a band would be so much fun apart from the fact that I would have to locate a few other people willing to do it with the appropriate talent lol.

    One if these days I WILL find myself in a women’s store buying for myself and being completely honest about it to the store attendant. Gotta get it done before I finish my degree….

  • Petra

    Member
    07/03/2014 at 1:55 pm

    The list is so long on the things I would love to do .. but I did find a good idea to go hairless … I did the Greatest Shave . A charity event as most would know. Full wax and as they say ..BSC …and I have just carried it on since then. Even my mates have not questioned me about it … it is nice not worrying about legs etc ……..just a thought

    Petra

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    08/03/2014 at 12:55 am

    Thanks for the greatest shave idea Petra

    I had enough trouble getting to a hairless chest, (so’s I could wear lower necklines and attach my breast forms), without pushing my luck and “going all the way”. My beloved complained about the chest hair coming out of the top of my summer shirts, so I got rid of that.

    But given I got “sprung” a few weeks back and a seemingly valid “truce” is holding well, I’m extremely reluctant to push my luck any further.

    Regards

    Caty

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    08/03/2014 at 4:50 am

    Not wishing to boast but I have done some of those things, Many years ago I went to a dance with a 40s swing big band playing and I danced in the arms of the man who took me. That night remains forever in my memory, it was so wonderful to have a man fuss over me and treat me like a lady and feel his manly mody next to mine but now those days are long go so keep wishing and dreams will come true

  • Anonymous

    Guest
    10/03/2014 at 11:34 pm

    Great thought process, but i would have to say the most desirable thing for me would be hair free, its so feminan