Hi Josephine
I’ve stated before that I really couldn’t care less about TG “rights” or any of that sort of stuff but your post, and accompanying article, piqued my interest. I grew up as a typical youngster in a rusted-on Catholic household. Actually that is probably too strong a description…Dad was an ex-serviceman who had (pre-war) attended a Catholic boys college but his experiences in conflict made him question his beliefs, which is an understandable position to have taken for many a serviceman. His view was that his children could make their own minds up. Mum hung on to the old ways primarily, I suspect, to please her mum. I come from a large household (there were 10 of us) and we all had to attend Sunday School with its constant tales of storms and pestilence if you didn’t do this or that. Good theatre, but not really relevant or engaging in the dawning Space Age of the 1960’s where a child’s imagination was captivated by the possibility of trips to the stars rather than remote seas being parted by escaping pilgrims thousands of years previously.
As a kiddie in these classes I wrestled with the two versions of God that were, and often still are, presented. On one hand we had a deity that wrecked storms and pestilence across the world killing almost everything and on the other hand He loved us all. On one hand He sent his son to earth who gathered up the weak, the lame, the poor, the diseased, and probably people like us, and was then allowed to be Martyred. There were always two extremes to everything and not much middle ground to be seen. I liked the nice stories and I was completely turned off by the nasty ones. I know now that they were meant to be allegories but they left lasting impressions on me that persist to this day. There is also, it must be said, nothing more boring than an atheist and a christian arguing about whether or not there is a God. Neither can prove their case and these often heated discussions descend rapidly until someone says “ah yes but that’s how the Nazi Party started” or “then how come a child gets cancer if your God is so good?”. Pointless.
With dwindling congregations in most western denominations it isn’t really that surprising that some will reach out to disaffected individuals who want to pursue their faith yet live a lifestyle that is at odds with doctrines that have been in place for hundreds of years. I personally have no problem with anyone who seeks to enjoy their faith with other like-minded people and so to the Anglicans I say good on you for putting your hand out and I hope those from our little community that this impacts on will have solace in what appears to be a genuine and sincere move by them. It is not all that long ago that the thought of a woman conducting a religious service in a mainstream religion was met with derisive laughter so this is just another step forward for those with faith to embrace.