So Hard too continue

[Anonymous]

Hi there Rebecca
First you are not alone, we have all most likely started dressing from an early stage,I for one was dressed by my older sister right up to my early teen years and thought nothing of it, actually we both enjoyed it, I have been dressing since, since joining here there have been numerous contacts that I have recieved and through other places and just getting out and having a look around you would be amazed at how many love us getting dressed, the fact your in tassie dosen’t mean your isolated to one spot, I was only there a few days last year ad managed to hook up twice with some locals, I must say the treated me every inch a lady, so I had a great timeI’m sure if you adventure out and even come over to the main land you will like what you find, me I don’t meet very many but make the most when I do, if you come to Vic in the future look me up and I will try to meet with you, but don’t feel alone because your NOT. 😆 😉

[Anonymous]

Hi Rebecca, You don’t have to fit into anyones world but your own. I am about your age and can identify with some of your feelings. I get by by thinking of the grumpy old women/men series. We’re old enough to make our own decisions and “be grumpy” to those that don’t like it 😆
You’ll be fine if you stick to who you really are and what you really want.
You might have to take it slowly with ones that you love but bugger the rest. 😆
Gwen

[Anonymous]

Hi Rebeccca,

Sounds like you are on a bit of a downer which is not good.

I am not a counsellor or anything but just from that brief message it sounds like you need one.

Go and get some professional help, all on here can only support you with words. It sounds like you need a bit more than that.

Rest assured a lot of us have been through depressing times with a bit of help you will overcome it.

Regards,

Kiki

[Anonymous]

Hi Rebecca
I”m now 57 & have just been out dressed for the first time in my life.
I was a seceret dresser since the age of ten .When I turned 40 I told my family & started to dress openly at home @ 45 I told some close freinds & dressed when they came over , Most are no longer even aquaintances now . Some were openly disgusted as they put it, others laughed behind your back & told anyone they could they had this queer freind who dressed in drag (ha,ha etc) but two couples are still very close & accept totally who I am.
Rebecca depression is part of who & what we are but honesty to everyone will bring it”s own reward in the long run .
Do see your doctor for help with the depresion & be honest they will not judge you & can foreward you to other surport groups for the depession .
I found what caused me the greatest grief was accepting myself for the tranny I am , with a therepist we overcame that problem & I started to grow as a person confident in myself & no longer afraid of ridicule from the peasants out there with narrow minded attitudes as to what another person should dress like.
Well love from what I Have read you are lucky you have so many potential freinds & suport from all the girls on this sight.
Hang in there girl & ask for help from those who are there with you because we all get there sometime

Love

Salina Marie

PS I dont pass in public but I no Longer care

[Anonymous]

One of the crazy things about this world is that the majority of people fail to accept a person for themselves but rather than who they are. Us girls are a mix of TS TV and CD’s but inside we are still the same person we always have been. Those who are able to accept us soon learn that we do tend to be more sensitive and compassionate towards just about every aspect of life; wives, boyfriends and girlfriends who do accept us soon learn that they have a far better relationship than with some tough guy who does not give a shit for anything other than himself. The only advice that I can offer is to be yourself, do not change for anyone. life is hard but we do have a better ability to handle it than most as we are able to see more than one side of it.
Hugs and Kisses,
Jeanette.

[Anonymous]

HI Rebbecca .

All of the posts I see here are all so true , You are not alone at all.
I have be communicating with gurls from tassie for some time now , and I am in WA , You are definitely not alone at all my dear . If you like I will ask Wendy in Tassie if I can give you her contact details I am sure she would love to talk / help you she is also on MSN messenger !

Do not think for one minute you are someone you’r not , You feel and dress the way you feel you ARE ! I can associate very closely with Jeanette , in that my female side was disclosed to my wife of 25 years some 20 years ago , an she see’s me for who I am , , It is respect for her in simple honesty , and it has paid big dividends , in that she accepts all of me for who I am . rather than on of the macho tough guy types , that osme people expect us to be that Jeaneete referrs to . not that I have ever been one LOL

My dear wife and I go shoping and she buys me all that I need , not to mention a few surprises from time to time , . YES I AM ONE OT THE LUCKY ONES LOL

But a word of warning , be careful , as you are the only one that knows your partner , as well as you do , wiegh up the consequences very carefully , and exactly how you go about it ,, as to what her reaction will be ,,, All I am trying to say is that , Your not alone and that honesty worked for me , Contact me if you would like me to contact Wendy , from Tassie , for you ,
PS you do look so beautiful in your Pic
Cheers
Elle
WA elleallenby@hotmail.com

[Anonymous]

Welcome Rebecca

You are one of very many. Just type in crossdrssing in Google and see how many entries you get. more than for a quite lot of masculine activities. CD 1.79 million / landrover 2.9 million

In 2004 I went out crossdressed to a crossdressing dance and wow was I addicted. I was weeling quite alone, embarrassed and wanting for CD outings to go to so I started looking on the internet.

Then I saw how incredibly popular CDing was. maybe as much as 1 in 20 have CD inclinations. After seeing how popular it really was I no longer felt embarrased. Being transgendered can be quite an advantage in realtionships, by allowing my femine side to enter into realtionships the connection with my partner is very much closer and intimate,

The next thing is to contact your local CD,TV,TS support group. The group I joined is called “Chameleon Society” they are very friendly and helpful, they even organise CD outings. I went to 6 outing last year and this year I hope to go out at least once a month.

Going out is much much better than being all dressed up with nowhere to go.

Happy new year and

Hugs and smiles
Vicki

[Anonymous]

You are all so good, and so right (I say with a tear in my eye)

[Anonymous]

Too everyone

Thank you all so much for replying, my desperation hasnt lessened but i do feel i have somewhere to turn. My issues are insurmountable however i really appreciate advice and your care!

Thank you
Love rebecca

[Anonymous]

Rebecca darling, no issue or problem is insurmountable, paticularly this one. You are important and your feelings are important. Listen to your inner voice and feel this from your heart. The truth of who you are is all that matters.

We are derided and put down by people who are narrow minded, bigoted and mostly unhappy within themselves (many of the men are simply afraid that they might feel similarly or are secretly attracted to us!). My partner was horrified when I first told her about me, and now our relationship is based on love and truth, she has learned to accept me as I am (and helped me to accept me as I am too!).

Look inside cherie and see the beautiful person you are, that is what really matters. I have never met another tgirl (will one day though!) and have never been out in public, but I have gained so much from being part of trannyradio. There are so many of us and we are NOT wierd devaint sickos, we are just people who have a strong feminine energy to compement our male energy thus achieving a balance rarely found.

You are special Rebecca and I send you love and healing and wish you peace and joy. You can find that peace within you by accepting yourself as you are.

Love Melody

[Anonymous]

Beautifully put Melody simply beautiful I can associate with soooo much that you have written.
I am pleased to say that (wonderful) Wendy In Tasmainia has made contact with Rebbecca , and on that point the only thing I wish to add is a special thank you to all . and the though that just being a part of Tranny radio is sooooo wonderful it is just like bening adopted , by each other ,

Why adopted , well that is easy , It means , soo much to me , simply being , and having the feeling of being a part of a group of something that accepts care’s , wanting and willing to help and love each other , SO lets not loose that .
And special Thank you to Amanda for making this all possible through her hard and wonderful work in putting this site together.!!!
Cheers to all so lets keep in touch keeping up the support
Love to all
Elle XXX 😆 😆

[Anonymous]

Hi Rebecca,
Melody has put it so well. I strongly recoomend you seek out a phsychologist, not because there is anything wrong with you but because they are brillliant at looking at peoples insurmountable problems and seeing alternatives. I know this from my own happy experiences. They get people to look at themelves and their situations in ways that simply don’t occur to most of us at the time. It’s so easy to box yourself in when there are often many alternatives that can bring great joy to your life.
Try one out especially one familiar with cd/ts issues, I’m sure you won’t be sorry.
Gwen

[Anonymous]

Hi Rebecca

I am in melbourne, if u ever get to melbourne, i am tgirl, love dressing as girl so feel free to email at: melissacd04@yahoo.com.au. It is hard to have no one to talk to, i understand that. I am 35 and been crossdresser for awhile now, there is nothing wrong with that. There are places to go out dressed in melbourne as well, okay hope this helps.

Melissa