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transgender would I be if born other than I was?
This curious and rather wobbly thought came to mind when I read another post a moment ago. The comments was made about how would I know that I was a woman for only women know what it is to be that. I thought immediately I am not and never have been or claimed to be a woman!
I am TRANSGENDER and I am feminine in presence. A Transgender woman maybe but never would I have the life experiences to know what it is to truly be a woman. These are veiws I have held for some time, they are mine and I don’t expect all to agree. I am actually proud to be this transgender self that I am and it is my reason for life and reason to change my world .
So I wonder what if I had been a female from the start? Could it be that I would have still been transgender? It’s a valid question I think , for if instead of actually being gender binary we are truly gender diverse individuals by nature, it would be logical to suggest what ever sex we’re born gender diverse we would have been.
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Hi.
I wont try and answer this , only say i dont know because im intersexed . my mind does not see or understand male thoughts or how males see things, i thought i had more idear of what is a male,
yes i worked & was trained under them yet as i’ll allways say i have no idear, theres just nothing there, my mind is set in a mindset of being female , how much allmost all though just not quite 100 % i dont do the what if i can only do the what is,
And no im not a female trapped in a male body ether, my body was / is right for who i am. that does not say our bodys are compleate or even 100 % thats not the issue, any way thats not a major matter .
what is , is we accept who we are & have a life that is pleaseing to us & for myself as a person who is some what different, who is accepted for who i am as a female / woman. & from birth, .
…noeleena…
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I am a women first I can’t see myself any different from the women next to me on train bus or classroom friend or what ever, really I don’t experience that transgender thoughts as I’m totally comfy with being a women my mind body and people around me see me only female, but there are exceptions ie yes people from my past often try and blackmail me for money n treathen me and yes the local subway or McDonalds will find out from my old subway or McDonalds poations held and yes they won’t employe for that reason
But to answer your question to be a boy was to be transgendered cause I had to try to be a boy I don’t try to be female I just am
Sorry I agrue this point to death as to meet me your be like ok well she’s been female her whole life
