Unwanted behaviour

[Anonymous]

Hi everyone
I haven’t posted on TR for a while but I it found necessary to support and come to the defence of my friend Virginia on her comments on an earlier post in this thread.
We are all diverse, most people here on TR, their cross-dressing is because of a sexual nature or expression. That’s totally ok, and there’s nothing to be ashamed about that
However, there are some of us, like me and Amanda can speak to this, are not like that. We are medically diagnosed with Gender Disphoria and Trans-sexualism, therefore, the sexual part of cross-dressing doesn’t mean anything, so don’t treat us like that! Have some respect!
Anyway, that’s my thoughts
Amy
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[Anonymous]

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to whom it may concern – yes, it is the year of our lord 2010 and we are not living in the victorian age. and we are amongst our own, and we should feel safe. but transformal (and i am sure any event related to tranny radio) is NOT hellfire. or anything like hellfire.

i’m not a prude by any means, but no matter what the circumstances or event, under the laws of nsw

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Indecent assault is unwanted touching of a person’s body by another person. For example it can include kissing or inappropriate touching of a person’s breasts, bottom or genitals.

It can also mean, rape or attempted rape if genitals are involved.

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unwanted means without the consent of the other person. consent usually means a person agrees to the action by clear words or unambiguous acts. in other words, if in any doubt whatsoever, don’t.

Most issues seem to come from the ‘unambiguous act’ part. “I was buying her drinks all night, I asked if she’d come to my room for a night cap, we kissed.. SHE DIDN’T SAY NO!”

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i’m sure you know who you are. do not ever let it happen again, or I will either encourage the victim to press charges or take the matter up personally. let’s make this the end of the story. no further correspondence will be entered into.

No idea what that’s about, but I am pretty sure I don’t want to know either. Hopefully it does not involve any people I care about (you, Lou and Amy.)

Shells

[Anonymous]

hey shells – thanks for your thoughts. it’s not a big deal – just an icky moment. i think some people have a very liberal view as to what and who can be groped, grabbed or rubbed. i don’t think there is any implication that going to a transgender event is license for behaviour that you would not expect anywhere else. if you want that sort of thing, go hang out at a swingers club or gay sauna. actually hellfire club has rules strictly forbidding non-consensual touch:

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1) Touch anyone without express permission and we throw you out.

[Kristen_james]

I just stumbled across this thread & I don’t know of the details or who was involved but I’m hoping that what ever happened, didn’t sour for you what was otherwise a very enjoyable night.

[Anonymous]

hey kristen – thanks for your kind thoughts. as i said – it’s no big deal – just someone being over familiar … if you want to put it that way.

sour? noooo siirrrreeee. any day is a good day. we don’t live in baghdad and generally, we are free to do as we please. we live blessed lives.

transformal was great – good to catch up with old friends in an accepting environment at a classy establishment. all props to amanda!