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What would you do seeing other TG’s CD’s TS’s out in public?
Hi all just thought i’d share an encounter with u all…
I’m a member of a car club we had our Xmas cruise/bbq we had about 30 or so members turn up & a female member turned up for the cruise from QLD. Not sure if anyone else noticed but she was a TS/TG i was chattin with her & noticed the voice, The large veiny hands & from behind the broad shoulders. but me being to shy was to shy to ask her & tell her about me. Like what would u say in that circumstance. what would be her reaction…… Please share ur thoughts & experiences in these sort of situations…….
Cheers Tressa…………..
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Personally, I would want to be accepted as the woman i present myself as being.
So as a matter of tact and decorum I would treat another t girl in the way that I wanted to be treated.
I wouldn’t want someone to come up to me outside of t girl social circles and engage me about trans issues.This particular t girl might have transitioned years ago and moved on.
I’d err on the side of tactfully keeping it close to your chest.Cheers,
Claire -
I do agree with Clare …. the only way to proceed in my eyes would be to make friends with her and if you feel you might have enough in common then tell her you story sometime down the track.
I work at markets and I had a CD come and tell me all about his “friend that was TS” Because I know what TS meant I did get the hint, but I dont mind people knowing I am TS, but some girls would be all over it by now.
So yes its a hard subject.
xxx
Kelly Jones
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Agree with the girls I do……err on the side of caution.
You’d wanna be totally sure that you’re not talking to a masculine GG, coz that could lead to some uncomfy words 😳
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I also agree with the other comments.
Even if this lady is a trannie, who’s curiosity is stirred here? Hers? or yours?
Just look past your interest and accept this person, as a person. Treat her, as you would like to be treated.
Acceptance is a wonderful thing in our world.
And if you do, without making any fuss…You never know, you just might make yourself a real, firm friend indeed.
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Tressa,
Long time no speak,, who know the girl in question could be a member of TR,
I know of one “offical rac e girl” from QLD on here.
Also two people that do Drag racing (yes fast car stuff) on here.
Anyway, respect the person in the gender they are dressed, as you would expect that someone does to you.
Judy
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it is hard to know what to do, but as everyone has said treat them as you wished to be treated. If you can start in a normal conversation when you meet this person it might be the best way to understand who they are. One
I know when I have been in boy mode in Darlinghurst or Newtown I have passed cross dressers who I don’t know, are out for the day shopping, just smile and say hello. if they stop and say hello back you can strike up a conversation, but if they put their head down and walk on you can just go on your way.Penny.
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sorry didn’t mean to send a second post, you can thank my mad cat who jumped onto the key board.
Penny
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hi… this has come up with me . ill just say hi,, then carry on like i do with most people there is a point throgh . as a women ill say hi to all kinds of people . the thing is most women will say hi back . i am thinking as on the street or in shops . in groups like ours . manly women its okay as well if i do see a trans i will treat them just the same . as i did see some one bail up a friend of mine & she was a gg. i know her as well . if its the other way round i have children ask me what i am thats because they see i am different again no problem . i do get in the news a bit so that does set me up as we did on the 27 of this month the timaru herald. ya ya i know cant keep away …well she. Emma Baily asked me ……
…noeleena…
