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What would you wish for if you had one wish
This thought struck me the other day and IO wondered for a little while what I would do if the Cross dressing Genie of the lamp came along and offered me one wish. What would I wish for.
Natural breasts, to be born as a girl, acceptance by my spouse, millions of dollars to spend on clothes jewellery and accesories, world peace (sorry girls just channeling my inner Miss world). After some serious thought I finally decided my own natural long healthy hair. Dont get me wrong I love my wigs and the variation they give me for my different looks but my own hair that I could brush tie up style and all the other things girls like me (old and balding) miss.
Would love to hear what everyone else thinks would be their one magic wish
Take Care
Love as always
Glenda -
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On initial reading Glenda’s thought I thought there was something lacking with the wish, Better hair? I immediately thought of better figure, all non desirable hair removed. a nice place to live with a huge wardrobe that got restocked every fashion season. I even thought of the ultimate fantasy, to be transformed.
Years ago I was with a friend, she was showing me photos of her five year old grand daughter, a very pretty little girl that her parents had dressed in the height of fashion consequently we had the image of a very pretty and very girly lil princess My friend made the observation that it would be great to young again and wear these pretty clothes. I made the obvious and, with hindsight. oh so stupid, comment that it would be good to be born a girl and wear these as often as you wanted.
To which I received the rather crushing reply, “What would be the point”? Of course the point being it wouldn’t be anywhere near as interesting or even exciting as a girl. Andy Warhol famously remarked how he liked working with cross dressers because they enjoyed it more and worked harder at it.
Glenda’s wish for healthy and long, luxuriant hair is a vrryOn initial reading I thought there was something lacking with the wish, Better hair? I immediately thought of better figure, all non desirable hair removed. a nice place to live with a huge wardrobe that got restocked every fashion season. I even thought of the great wish in every fantasy, to be transformed.
Years ago I was with a friend, she was showing me photos of her five year old grand daughter, a very pretty little girl that her parents had dressed in the height of fashion consequently we had the image of a very pretty and very girly lil princess My friend made the observation that it would be great to young again and wear these pretty clothes. I made the obvious and, with hindsight. oh so stupid, comment that it would be good to be born a girl and wear these as often as you wanted.
To which I received the rather crushing reply, “What would be the point of that”? Of course the point being it wouldn’t be anywhere near as interesting or even exciting as a girl.
Glenda’ wish for one’s own healthy and long, luxuriant hair is quite sensible really, also a modest wish showing she isn’t as greedy as I am. -
I’m with Glenda. I’m working on my other problems but lack of hair on my head has driven me to a wig that I would love to be able to do without.
Of course turning the clock back 40 or so years would solve that problem and make everything else so much simpler and so much more worthwhile. -
To spend a day or 2 as a woman in pretty clothes without worrying about how unappassable i am or what would happen if my spouse knew.
To just allow myself to fully immerse myself and enjoy being a woman.
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To have somewhere to go and dress how I want to – I’ll never pass as a woman, not into jewellery & make up, I just like wearing some of the clothes. Somewhere to go to and dress how I want and no-one will mind.
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One wish, what would it be?
Knee jerk reactions came to mind, but dismissed. I therefore had to think very carefully. And of course bearing in mind the question relates to being transgender etc.
After some thought I came to the conclusion that I would have gone back in time and, despite all the obstacles of the times, I would have requested, like the lion in the Wizard of Oz, courage. Courage to have been my true self, courage to face up to all the challenges of being trans. Courage to have sought help years ago when social acceptance and attitudes deemed transgender people were derided and shunned. Courage to face the daily self loathing and the accompanying suicidal thoughts and deeds.
I’m not really sure that I lacked courage, it just appears that way to me. Being transgender is a constant daily struggle brought on mainly, I believe by self doubt.Forget the luxurious hair, I have hair, a full head, handy? yes, but not really that important when there are some decent wigs around.
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I would seek the same experience as Lucy describes.
As a secret girl I feel the chance to be worry-free, and to explore the public arena with confidence for some days would be marvellous
Jan
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well this is simple
I remember when i was 17 sitting on my bed in a top and a skirt
a though came into my head i should just stay as a girl i cant fight it and iam happy like thisbut then pannic set in how will i make a liveing as a transgender person and all the other stuff what goes along with it
So if i had a wish with the knowledge i know now
I would wish to change when i was 17 like i should havecool question
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This is an easy one for me. As I’m not one for a full transition etc my wish would be to be able to transform my appearance at will from one gender to the other that way I can have the best of both worlds. I can continue my male life when I like but can also fully realise myself as a woman whenever I desire. No more fear of being stared at except for the good reasons.
