Hana
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Hey Noeleena. i’ve never looked at u in that way, but thanks for being honest and clarifying.
bye,
Hana.
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Hi alana, i dont have much to say to add to this, except to say that i am in a similar boat, having not told my parents, and considering it a lot. anyhow, just wished to say that it’s interesting to hear about your story, and i wish u the best. and also maybe, just take care of yourself through this difficult period.
good luck,
Hana.
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Thanks girls for all your posts. Tina, much of what u say i agree with. in that, i agree that family shoud be the first support base, and that they are always going to be my loved ones no matter what. i do want to tell my parents in time. i have thought about it a lot however, and my feeling is that my mum and dad will have a very hard time understanding, and will need time and support before they may ever come close to accepting it. for this reason, i’ve thought that maybe its best if i can somehow develop more confidence and more of a grounded life, outside of my parents oversight initially, before i then tell them and deal with their concerns.
it’s for this reason that i’ve thought that perhaps moving to sydney or melbourne would be helpful. not necessarily to fully transition etc, without my parents knowledge. just to, at the least, live in an environment where there is much more possibility to dress publicy/go out etc on a regular basis and start living my life more fully.
i am also unsure how realistic this is, as i know that making such a move in itself is not an easy thing, nor is leaving my friends and trying to make new ones, nor is the ensuing possible isolation that might result for a while. i feel, that if i did start to meet some more people, and start to integrate my dressing into my life more fully, on a regular basis, it might help with telling my parents and dealing with those consequences.
anyhow, there is a lot to consider and think about. and so, again, if anyone has any further thoughts on these issues in general, i’d really appreciate hearing them.
and thanks for reading my (rather long) post
Hana.
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this isn’t exactly the same, but for those looking for a bed and breakfast/weekend away, you might want to check this out… the people are really supportive as well. they also do massages and make overs
cheers
