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Agree, excellent photos Martina! You certainly have skill and a good eye for composition. Thank you x
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Thanks for organising Caroline. I do believe you are correct in your assertion that we all had a good time. I still can’t believe that Kristen did not win a prize for her perfectly gordy animal print ensemble covering most of the big african game.
I think the attendance would have been much greater than 200 though judging by the packed dance floor.Regardless a good time was had :cheer:
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Thank you Carol, it’s always good to start the day with a good bout of laughter
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Thank you Carol, it’s always good to start the day with a good bout of laughter
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Hi all,
I totally agree with Caty and others about the essence of this post. I am relatively new to being out to my wife and have gained acceptance from her. The colossal relief of stress, for which I am eternally grateful, has caused my thinking, doing and pre-occupation with dressing and transgender issues to increase rather than decrease…a bit like the proverbial bottle being uncorked and overflowing. This has had the effect of my productivity of things that need to be done and my male hobbies taking a distant back seat. I find this really frustrating, as I procrastinate over everything that’s important in normal life in favour of going on-line, checking facebook, emails, Flickr etc and planning my next outing. I have been out of work for the last two months, but start a new job next week. I am desperately hoping that I can focus on this when I start, but am worried that all things TG will hijack this. I guess it’s a question of discipline!
As for the compulsion getting stronger as we age, I think this is down to reducing testosterone after 40 and a sense that ‘it’ can’t be beaten and a degree of acceptance sets in. This worries me as I am new on the journey and wonder where it will all end, and whether I go from a functioning T-girl to a non-functioning one where things in daily life that need to be done and hobbies get moved further and further down in the pecking order!! Perhaps new hobbies will arise?
I hope this post has stayed sufficiently on track.
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Hi Caty,
Yes, without a doubt I suffer terribly from PDWS :cry:. I was lucky enough to spend nine straight days, bar going to work, in Kayh mode recently and it was nine days of total happiness and a sense of belonging. However, after picking my wife up from the airport, which I was happy about I hasten to add, I went in to town later that day and experienced a high level of stress including elevated heart beat, butterflies in my stomach and an excruciating longing to be one of the girls out on the street.
This was a strong reaction, probably due to the length of the nine day session, but regardless of the length of the dressing session it is always sad to say good-bye until the next time. The good thing is that over the last few months the frequency of Kayh appearing has become more regular…but like a spoilt child, she always wants more!
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The Opera Bar truly is a fine venue where even the security guards are friendly. Thank you to Caroline and Adrian for organizing. .. and all that attended. It was lovely speaking to you all, although time ran out before I had a chance to speak to everyone. Well there’s always next year, when I’m sure there will be plenty of opportunities. ..see you all around the traps in 2015:side: