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Are you interested in men?
NOW GIRLS AND LADIES
Having done a few laps around the pubs and clubs of Sydney and Canberra i have found that you are fair game to guys . 1 you are a girl /lady 2 WE dress and try to behave like girls/ladies does not matter if you are wearing a short skirt or a long one we are in the court of a men’s domaim we are fare game . But if your out to have a good night out with your girly friends be parpared to find a male to get frisky and they do and you can find these guys any were more so if they have had a few drinks and if you had some too .
BUT than i have found some of these guys in places were you at least expect it ”Like were you ask” service statations ,mcdonalds ,kabab shops, kmart , target, resturants in places like
in parramatta . balmain , rhodes shoping complex ,west ryde shops , woolworths of all places don,t be shocked 😳 😳 be flattered just remember you are a woman take it while you can the fantasy does not last long . see you lot of love steffi 😆
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Apparently not Steffi!
It’s one of those wierd contradictions – I’m not at all interested in men in male mode. I don’t find them in the slightest visually or sexually attractive in female mode. But I’m quite happy if they find me attractive.
Fiona xx
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I’m interested in men who buy me drinks. Apart from that I have little use for the poor dears lol
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Remember: a girl needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle
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Anyway, who in their right mind would want to kiss someone with a raspy beard and hairs in their nose? And why would anyone want to kiss a pair of lips without a nice colour of lipstick? Not me.
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Nope, I feel totally female with myself now, and almost 100% enfem now and Im def. NOT into or attracted to men .
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Quote:Nope, I feel totally female with myself now, and almost 100% enfem now and Im def. NOT into or attracted to men .
I think that one of the reasons why I crossdress is because I find females attractive and males repulsive. This applies to my own male appearance as well as others.
Whether I’m in male mode or female mode, I always find masculinity repulsive.
Alice
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Hello Annee
I’m Clare, and I understand your feelings.
I’ve been working with men over the past few years, and most of them are dirty, smelly,uncouth and offensive.
So I’ve always tried to be accepted by them, ’cause that’s what I thought one had to, laughing at the jokes and talking about women with no respect.
Sometimes I find a man who is more sensitive, though, and I always fall into conversation with them abpout more worthwhile things.
Not often, though. And I’m ast becoming less accepting of most men’s bullshit, as I’m gaining strength in my real self, my femme self.
Bless your heart,
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Quote:Hello Annee
I’m Clare, and I understand your feelings.
I’ve been working with men over the past few years, and most of them are dirty, smelly,uncouth and offensive.
So I’ve always tried to be accepted by them, ’cause that’s what I thought one had to, laughing at the jokes and talking about women with no respect.
Sometimes I find a man who is more sensitive, though, and I always fall into conversation with them abpout more worthwhile things.
Not often, though. And I’m ast becoming less accepting of most men’s bullshit, as I’m gaining strength in my real self, my femme self.
Bless your heart,
ClareHi Clare, I run a performance workshop for cars, And yes, You should SEE some of the men that come in to get there cars worked on . I think it is really replusive … Im happy doing the work (they think im a GG anyway!) and get totally spun out that I can make one of QLD’s quickest Falcons ..
But yes, I don’t like Men, And I have already got on better with women
I have my girlfriend at the monent, (gg) and planing to get married before the end of the year .. Because my transition goes to far because not allowed same sex marriges!!!
I mean, I have something that I hate between my legs, and can’t wait for it to be gone, there is NO way I’d like to see another one !!! LOL
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Hello ladies,
On the subject of men…I was a chiropractor for 20 years, and one of the smartest things I ever heard at a seminar was to have our own tree…
meaning: most chiropractors feel like they’re competing with the medical profession for patients…like there’s only so many sick people and if the real doctors get them, we (chiros) will miss out. So the man said: don’t try to climb up the medical adder to be up there with the GP’s, make your own ladder…sell your own type of health care.
So it is with us…we don’t need to agonise about whether men are good/bad, necessary/waste of space, whatever.
We are ourselves, we are a very special type of human being, if men or women like and accept us, that’s fine for them. If they’re scared of us and aggressive toward us, that’s their problem. People used to be scared of shamans and witches and wise men and women.
It’s a bit like being Jewish, or red-haired, or black…..what the world thinks of us is their problem, not ours.
Personally, I’ve got lots of men friends, some of whom are actually quite useful in their way.
Excuse my rambling,
Bless you all, Clare 😆 -
Hi Girls
Here is a curly one.
I have absolutely no attraction to men but:
I have a desire to learn and experience dancing as a girl but I don’t want to dance with men.
Quite a curly problem.
Vicki
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Hi girls
Maybe this all stems towards wanting to be recognised and accepted as female rather than lusting towards the opposite sex. In the above post Vicki wants to dance as a woman but not with a man. This seems to be a feeling of wanting to be accepted (in her case) as a competent female dance partner without any lustful intentions.I must admit I would feel quite pleased if a male saw me while dressed and made a nice comment. I would not have any lustful feeling towards him at all but I would appreciate the fact that he saw me as a woman rather than as a bloke!! Even at Chameleon Meetings if someone comments about what I’m wearing, it makes me feel good, whether they are crossdressed or not!!
Honestly, if you were at a crossdressed gathering and overheard a male commenting very favorably about you, wouldn’t you feel a little proud ?
As girls (and like all girls) we love to be noticed and that doesn’t mean that we have a sexual interest in the same sex. -
I, for one,love to taken as a female when i am dressed as a fem however my real interest is being in the company of other girls and allowing us to explore our female roles. I am happy to explore that as far as my partner is willing to go. Unfortunately to many girls think that just dressing up is all that needs to be fulfilled. We all are humans and all have some sort of sexual desire and shouldn’t be frowned upon if we seek the company of another girl.
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good topic. Its amazing when i classed self as just a crossdresser I HAD PEOPLE SAY TIO ME YOU MUST LIKE MEN OR BE BI. Assumption is a bad thing.
When i admitted to self and all I REALLY NEEDED TO GO FURTHER TO BE HAPPY MOST ASSUME oh you must like men or your “gay” and now becoming female. I UP UNTIL RECENTLY ALWAYS SAID ‘ I LOVE WOMAN AND CLASS SELF AS LESBIAN” HOWEVER I through my life have/had wanted to experience sex as a woman with a man just once>>>> I told my gg girlfriend and well after a few drinks one night she got me with a guy and now i face the dilema of accepting I MAY ALSO HAVE BEEN OR BE BI SEXUAL IN DENIAL. aS i always do onto google I WENT AND RESEARCHED. It is said as far as Transgender girls go 40% like woman only 40% like men only and 20% are bisexual.
Studies also say that just because one has gender dysphoria it does not go hand in hand that one must then like men and to take the point further if it was that simple there would be no lesbians or gay guys.
Who we like to me is a personnal issue that just as with gender one must accept fully and never fight it. If after transition I FIND I ALSO LIKE MEN WELL ILL DEAL WITH IT BUT AS IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS I have w partner female whom i love and adore and shall remain faithfull to may you all be happy no mater what gender attracts you in this journey we call life:)) -
There is an evolutionary process in the development of most CDs. Most will dress in early life and as a teenager the excitement of being dressed will often lead to masturbation. At this stage heterosexuality is the norm and many form relationships and marry ofen with children. Lets be honest, this often leads to difficulties further down the line. Later the urge changes and the drive is to dress and pass as far as possible as a female. Most will acknowledge the thrill of going dressed in public the first time. Further on of course the excitement of going public diminishes and some. probably a minority, will seek other experiences of a female. Often the first non-hetero experience will be with another CD. Later still one is like a young teenage girl. shy, inexperienced and ready to flirt but no more. A smaller number still of CDs will go through this phase and have enjoyable experiences with a male. Most are held back by an inbred homophobia (sure I know we all have an interlectual acceptance) The stage an individual reaches of course varies enormously but an understanding of this evolutionary process is necessary.
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Hmmmm,
I guess I must be different – (as Hexa) to me males are appealing but I don’t find girls all that appealing.
…and it is only a small subset of males – tall, muscular, impeccably clean, clean shaven, with hardly any body fat. A tough ask I know and I’m willing to be lenient if the guy is super masculine.
There is also another thing – I don’t like being reminded that I’m a guy and don’t like being touched “down there”. Being touched everywhere else is great.Drab me does NOT find males appealing and finds girls to be very appealing.
Note: This is not a “Homophobic” protection mechanism as I’ve tried plenty of stuff in drab mode to see what I like. As Fem I like Masculine, as Masculine I like Fem – simple
Luv Hexa
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