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Are you interested in men?
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I feel exactly the same way as alice !
Quote:Quote:Nope, I feel totally female with myself now, and almost 100% enfem now and Im def. NOT into or attracted to men .I think that one of the reasons why I crossdress is because I find females attractive and males repulsive. This applies to my own male appearance as well as others.
Whether I’m in male mode or female mode, I always find masculinity repulsive.
Alice
BUT that doesnt mean that I feel other gurlls would or should not – its a very personal matter and one of what happens ….
I have to say tho that gurlls who have transitioned or are doing so and look attractive i find attractive …
Otherwise I have no affection for men .Its bad enough putting up with most men as a male, but If i was to ttransition I think i would find them insufferable
Hugs
SUzz -
What a lot of comments, and a lot of negativity crap.
We all have to bare our lot as far as men goes. So here are my thoughts and experiences.
I love men….In the sense that when I see and hear of policemen, surf lifesavers, bush firemen etc…I am full of admiration no sexual lust.
Now then sexually, dressed as a male I have no interest in a male whatsoever.
However dressed as a female I am very interested in a male and hopefully he is interested in me.
That is why I prefer to look a bit tarty when dressed.
Sexually dressed as Amberr I have experienced love with both female and male.
Okay, in a nutshell, I think that the ultimate confirmation of being female is to have a man beiing sexually attracted to you.No, men are not horrible creatures. If you think that then you have a problem not them.
Amberr XX
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hey
Im not being negative here – I just dont find other men attractive – whether im dressed or not.As I said, its a very personal thing
So to those who are attracted to men good luck, to those who are not good luck and likewise to those in th middle ground or who are attracted to both gender ,bless you and good luck
Hugs
Suzz -
The topic of being attracted , or not , to men , along wth , “Should you tell your partner” . . seems to be another eternal source of disagreement among us gurls .
Quote:Anee said . .
” Nope, I feel totally female with myself now, and almost 100% enfem now and Im def. NOT into or attracted to men .”Anee , I would have thought that to feel totally female it would be only natural , as a female , to be attracted to men .
Quote:Hexa writes . .
” . . guess I must be different – (as Hexa) to me males are appealing but I don’t find girls all that appealing. “No sweetie you’re not all that different . . . I for one am with you on that one . . .
Quote:. . . and so it seems is Amberr . .
” . . . I think that the ultimate confirmation of being female is to have a man being sexually attracted to you. . . . . . .
No, men are not horrible creatures. If you think that then you have a problem not them. “Amberr sweetie I couldn’t agree more . . . . and in my humble opinion , to “dress” because you find your own male appearance repulsive , is quite bizarre . . even for “us” .
For me . . . as Ronda I don’t feel sexually attracted to gg’s but I do feel , what I consider to be , a perfectly normal female attraction to guys and the way in which I interact with them .
When I meet a nice man who can relate to me totally as if I were a female it’s the ultimate compliment , I don’t try to psychoanalyse his motivations , I revel in his attentions . . and just enjoy being treated like a woman . . . and that includes sexually .Ronda
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well this topic is so good i just had to reply ,as for me when in my fem mode i just love to be with with a guy ,i have meet several guys and i guess i have been lucky,most have been very nice to me ,i love to do gilie things ,i class myself as bi ,but must say i am tending to want to be with a guy more and more and my female desires are growing stronger all the time ,i love to kiss guys but dont really like guys with beards ,guys who dress well and look nice get my attention ,they dont need to be a male model ,its just the way they look that does it for me ,i still love women ,the way they dress so sexy ,but sorry guys do it for me
all the best alanamarie -
I’m bisexual, but have a preference for women. I also don’t think I could ever be in a serious long term relationship with a man. Generally, I wouldn’t say I find most men attractive, but when I’m dressed up, I get very turned on by the thought of a man having his way with me, and find males extremely desirable. I think that this is mainly to do with my fascination with the actual penis (almost to the point of worship), and the fact that I really enjoy performing oral sex on men.
Anyway, my 2 cents…
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Hi all, Thought i would add my 2 cents worth here. I am into men when in drab and when dressed fem. I actually don’t find women very attractive sexually. I have always found it very difficult to find someone to accept both my masculine and feminine sides. I think this topic just goes to show how diverse human sexuality is. Basically, we should open our minds and accept others, whatever their preference is.
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An interesting topic and one which i’ve always wondered what other girls felt .
For me ,i am very much in the same “category”sorry about that but couldn’t think of any other way of expressing it ,as Hexa. As drab i am not remotely interested in men but when dressed men appeal but they must be as hexa states impeccably clean smooth tanned you know all that stuff.
Yep it takes all types.
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Sammy -
I think maybe I should post something to tip the Balance here.. I have know idea why someone would want to kiss a girl!! eeeuwww!!!!! men, stubble, course hands, strong arms and cute ass.. WOW. I love contrast, contrast between him and I. I also like men (actually, one man in particular, now days) who are forceful, strong, and determined. I’ve never been into girls, I guess this has been one of the few things i really KNEW since I was younger.
Boys however.. I had a Poster of Beau Duke on my bedroom door when i was 14.
my first when I was 16, and this one I have now, for a long time to come I hope.
boys are at least clean down there.. girls… hmmm.. they make their own mess..
anyways..
thats how I feelEmma
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mmm yes Ems lol
Well I started out just liking girls. Guys were yuckie. I have been full time now for more than 12 months and have been on hormones for longer. I have started to notice men because they make me feel fem. They do all those guy things and they treat me as a girl. I guess the whole part of my journey was to feel fem, another female will include me as one of the girls, which I love too, but not like a guy can.
I dont like that stubble at all, and he must be clean and not smell yuck … but yes the strong hands and the protective thing is now appealing to me.
So yuckie guys may not me quite as yuckie now …. staring to warm towards them. lol (Still yuckie guys but)
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Kelly Jones
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I am not interested in guys at all when I am in guy mode, but I am only interested in guys when I am in girl mode. When I am in girl mode, I feel comfortable and confident. I feel like I am “myself”. The way I should be.
And I love those big strong hands and arms holding me tight and the feel of that stubble when they kiss. Mmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! -
Well i will add my 2 cents worth.I love men and women equally.The sensual touch of either and being spoilt no matter who they are is wonderful.So feel free to contact me LOL 😆
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OMG lol heaps …. reading a post of mine from 12 months ago and now I am in a fulltime relationship with a wonderful GG. mmm well the guy thing did not work for me and I am happy just being with my girl.
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Kelly Jones
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being bisexual, i am intrested in men and women. i lean more to the womens side
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I’m one of the minority, and going against the grain, I’ll say yes I like men as well, I’m bi, mainly interested in women, but I don’t mind a bit of fun with a nice guy every so often. BUT I need to qualify that by saying I can take it or leave it as far as guys are concerned, and I’m VERY fussy with everything about them if I do go there. Apeearance is just one of the things I consider, and I can safely say that many men wouldn’t have a chance with me, especially if they’re the beer-drinking yobs that you’d find in many football clubs or pubs. I thoroughly dislike a cardboard cutout image that includes liking football, beer, lewd and crude comments about women, an air of arrogance, and little else.
If he’s a nice looking guy to me, friendly, very open minded and good to talk to, then yes I’d consider it. Sadly, they are few and far between. Just lucky I can survive with women alone lol.
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