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Are you interested in men?
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Hi all,
I tried that once when I was young and beautiful….(about 1980 !) I dressed especially and put on a brave face, I was shaking inside. I sort of enjoyed it but when I realised fully what I had done, I suffered terrible guilt
for years. I decided that was not for me, but I still wished to be a lady.
If in the future this question pops up, then any relationship with a guy would have to be only with someone that I absolutely trust. Where do you find guys like that ?Jannine.X
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I’ve always been of the belief that men are hairy & they smell. Even allowed myself a look for a brief time, and confirmed my viewpoint. Who needs any other reason. No thank you
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Yes, they can be hairy. I’m not into the stereotypical hairy man with the gold chains and “I love me” attitude. But a certain amount of hirsuteness in the appropriate locations is quite attractive.
Yes, they do smell. And, now the hormones have done a lot of work, that smell has a certain amount of attractiveness to it also. Rugged, manly, stimulating that part of the cerebral cortex responsible for reproductive attractiveness. And I’m not referring to that BO “I’ve been slaving away on the building site all day in 40 degree heat” type smell. Although there is still something hidden away in even that odour.
Does that give away where my orientation lies?
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Since I was 10 I have been attracted to Tgirls, I saw a few pictures of a couple of Tgirls with an atricle discribing who they are in one of my dads magazines. This opened up my world as I new then what I was and it gave me a sence of normality. I have only had female partners but I am still very attracted to Tgirls and have pretended that my partners were shemale. I am not attracted to men as I just don’t feel anything sexual towards them, but a body with breasts and a penis I find very arousing. I can’t explain why but I feel that as I am developing my own breast tissue I feel more alive, attractive and confident.
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Being bisexual…yes, I am still interested in men, but prefer like-minded T-girls and GG’s
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I have dressed since a child, not really interested in men, ever! And as I mature, even less interested. Though, have always had an attraction to T-anything. Now that I am a late bloomer in the beautiful world of T, I only wish I had swung this way as a young person. I do no regret having 3 beautiful children. But, in some ways I wish I had had the guts to be the woman I am now intending to be much earlier. Thanks to some of the lovely members on this site I will acheive the femme side of me. And as for men, NO! Give me a T with a hard on anyday. As my Ex-wife use to remind me only to regularly, Men are Pigs! I agree give me a T-girl with luscious lips anyday!
Love SallyB xx
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I am attracted to both males and females. I am currently in a long term (13 yrs) relationship with my supportive girlfriend. She also accepts and understands my need for male company from time to time. This need has only come out recently, but I thoroughly enjoy it. I am not attracted to the dominant alpha male like some here, more run of the mill nice guys. I havent had the fortune to find a like minded soul, or girl like me, as yet, but would hope that the opportunity arises some day.
I look at myself being in a lesbian relationship now, as every day I come to accept myself more and more.
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Being with a guy …… yuck, I can’t imagine anything worse. I remember going to a gay bar 35 years ago thinking that I must be gay. Right I had to be, why else would I be so obsessed with wearing female clothing. But I had to leave after about 15 minutes thinking, nope, definitely not me.
As the day gets closer to losing the only male thing about me I am starting to get a bit worried. I have heard that some girls have actually changed preferences after the op. The whole idea of being in bed with a man is really icky to me.
I work in a very male dominated place (2 girls and 70 guys) and even though the guys here accept me and call me she/her, it’s just lik I’m one of the guys when they are talking their usual rubbish. Although I never let them get away with disrespecting women when I am around.
I guess all of those years ago I was right …. I really am gay after all …… I love women!!!!!! -
When I first started dressing I did fantasise about having sex with men. My first public outing dressed was a switch and I played out what were previously fantasies. Now I will admit that when dressed I enjoy those ‘forbidden’ delights. No explanation or second thoughts. I am bi-sexual and enjoy sex with men whilst dressed.
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Quote:Being with a guy …… yuck, I can’t imagine anything worse. I remember going to a gay bar 35 years ago thinking that I must be gay. Right I had to be, why else would I be so obsessed with wearing female clothing. But I had to leave after about 15 minutes thinking, nope, definitely not me.
As the day gets closer to losing the only male thing about me I am starting to get a bit worried. I have heard that some girls have actually changed preferences after the op. The whole idea of being in bed with a man is really icky to me.
I work in a very male dominated place (2 girls and 70 guys) and even though the guys here accept me and call me she/her, it’s just lik I’m one of the guys when they are talking their usual rubbish. Although I never let them get away with disrespecting women when I am around.
I guess all of those years ago I was right …. I really am gay after all …… I love women!!!!!!Don’t you think you’re being a little harsh?
My alter ego is a “guy”…and I don’t like to be considered “yuck”, or generalised about.
There’s also nothing wrong with anyone, trans or not, liking men…and there’s nothing wrong with anyone being homosexual, lesbian, heterosexual etc either…each to their own…
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Well im going out tonight with a bloke who calls me princess and treats me accordingly so i dont know what all the fuss is about:)
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adn yes miss lina – appears to me also that theres altogether too much genderalisation in the world and that this is the route of the prejudice we all experience from time to time
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Hi Girls , In my teens I was definetly Bi , Had a live in relationship with a man in his 40’s when I was 15 ! When I was 19 I was grabbed off the streete by a car load of skinheads and taken too a secluded spot where a group had gathered ! They raped.tourtured bashed me and left me for dead ! I spent 3 months in intensive care and have had two operations decades latter too fix the damage they inflicted ! I can’t stand too be touched by a man it still freaks me out ! But I do love girls !
Cheers Ella-Kristine -
Hi girls
Im both bisexual & tg.I am in a relationship with a guy and have been for the last 12 months he adores me and calls me princess he is protective of me its nise to craul into bed of a night and get cuddles. ive been hit on a couple of times but i say im spoken for.I was married for 20 years to a women and now the table has turned im the women now .So if you dress like a womem you will be treated as such by men. thats what real women
put up with to .And any way you look the part if you walk around with a boy friend beside youregards Chrissie
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I like men. I have loads of them as mates.
Sexually?
Eww, icky! No!
Although a gay mate cracked on to me many years ago. I was very flattered and would be again if I was ever in a similar situation. But I wouldn’t take him up on it.
Even a gurl would have to be drop dead gorgeous to gain my interest on that level.
But whatever, each to their own.
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