[June]

Good luck Michelle but I don’t believe there is such a thing as an ex crossdresser and the stress from not dressing is quite high, or at least that is what I found.

I hope you get plenty of support from your wife in this as it will be hard for you.

June

[June]

I find it easier to buy underwear than skirts and dresses and last time I bought a bra etc, I told the sales assistant (the owner from discussion) it was for me. That was at a small lingerie shop in West Perth. The principle being that it is a sale and I think that the price I paid she was quite happy for me to buy them.

I bought a twin set from St Vinnies and the lady said that it would look nice implying she knew it was for me and when buying a skirt at Rivers outlet, the woman didn’t blink so all my worries were for nothing.

My only bad time was a young girl at Target some years ago.

I always shop in drab and at shops out of my area. I am always nervous, but you just have to get on with it.

I think that Perth is big enough that your chances of getting caught are minimal.

June

[June]

1. What do you think is the part of your body which helps most in
your presentation as female? Legs and body size

2. Conversely, what do you think is the main thing that works against you? Face

3. Do you alter your voice at all when out in girl mode? No

4. At what age did you start crossdressing? 9 or 10

5. What is an 8 letter word that only contains one vowel? *Karen answered this correctly, see end of post for the new question

6. Do you have an email account under your girl name? Yes

7. Can you play any musical instruments? No

8. When out enfemme, are you just as likely to wear pants or do you
make it a point of at least trying to wear a dress or skirt? Pants

9. Have you ever dressed enfemme in another country or continent? No

10. What is your favourite movie with a TG theme? –

11. Is there a woman (GG) who you feel that you resemble even slightly? No

12. Have you undergone laser hair removal (or electrolysis)? No

13. If you dont go out, what do you do when dressed in girl mode? I work at home in my business

14. What is the biggest thing holding you back from venturing outside in
girl mode? Is it something that you even want to do? Fear of being thought of as that man in a frock over there and the attendant derisive cmments

15. Do you do your girl clothes shopping online or in person? Both

16. Do you plan on attending the Seahorse ball in August in Sydney? No

17. Do you feel that you are more accepting of other people’s alternative
lifestyles because of your experience being in the tg community? Yes

18. If there was a magic potion which you could consume that would
completely stop all your cd/tg/ts thoughts and feelings and you would
be a “normal” guy after that and never entertain the thought or desire
to do anything TG related again for the rest of your life, would you
drink it? No

19. Do aliens exist?(as in the UFO or ET sense of the word) Perhaps

20. Do you wish that you had been born female? Yes

* here is a new question to replace number 5 which will be 21 I guess

21. What is a TG related goal? To be able to dress when where and how I want without negative comment or reaction

[June]

Hi, I am 180cm, 74kg, size 14 skirt and 14/16 top. I worry about how tall I would be in heels.

[June]

1. My ideal sunday would be……..?
Sitting outside on a warm day, in a nice sun frock, drinking an ice cold beer from a frosty glass

2. What item of female clothing do you hate wearing?
Half masted slacks

3. Which celebrity really irritates you? (only one for now please)
Any football or cricket player full of self importance

4. Do you have pierced ears?
No

5. Who would you most like to go on a date with?
My boyfriend.

6. What was the best thing before sliced bread?
Cordless drill

7. When I just want to chill out and relax I…………….?
Put on a nice skirt and top and read a book

8. My shoe size is…………..?
10

9. I hate watching………on television?
Soaps and big brother type shows

10. What would be your perfect night out?
Dinner at a nice restaurant, or a barbecue with friends

11. What is the name of the guy who came to stay with Cousin Larry Appleton in the US Sitcom from the 80’s, “Perfect Strangers”?
No idea. Don’t watch sit coms

12. Are you at peace with your female side?
Yes

13. Have you ever played sport enfemme?
No, unless you count wearing panties while playing hockey

14. How many pairs of shoes do you own?
3

15. The movie that I have seen the most number of times it?
Rocky Horror

16. What is a daggy old song that you just love to listen to?
I’m a believer by the Monkees or by the writer, Neil Diamond

17. ……….. is the most overrated thing today
Professional sport

18. Do you feel that your non tg/cd friends and or family need to know or should know about your female side?
No

19. I would love to visit………..?
Dubrovnik

20. I have too many………..?you can’t have too many.

[June]

I have often wondered why often, CDs I meet wear clothes that are too small, too tight and really caricature women, but think that this is a fetish to those people rather than a desire to feel feminine.

I prefer to dress my age normally, and to wear clothes that fit me and are comfortable. Like wearing flats around the house rather than heels.

Then again, a nice school uniform???

😆

June

[June]

I wonder about the risk of being picked out if your face is visible in your photograph on here or on other similar sites. In truth the people visiting these sites are going to be CDs or those who like to be with CDs and are unlikely to spread the word around.

The likelihood of being identified is minimal really; the chances of someone who knows you being on line is slight, and if you are in a wig, make up and a frock, you are virtually unrecognisable anyway.

So, show your face, I think it is quite safe.

June

[June]

I must admit that I find high heels a little uncomfortable for normal wear and bought a pair of flat shoes to wear around the house while I am working. I find it easy to go to a shop where it is not busy and buy for myself. Occassionally I tell the assistant it is for me as I did when trying the shoes on.

I always shop in drab although I have femme underwear on all the time.

Five inch heels would make me about 6’4″ tall. Statuesque to say the least.

June