June
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After I told my wife following a stressful time when I was considering separation because of my increasing need to dress I have more or less compromised. I only dress fully when she is not home. But I do wear women’s underwear under my drab almost all the time. I wear a night dress that is almost unisex and ladies shorts that are; both when she is there.
The compromise is that she does not want a separation and that this would really be very hard on her at our late ages. From my perspective, after 39 years of marriage now I would prefer to be with her. Let’s face it we married after only knowing each other for less than 6 months and we still enjoy being married and are comfortable with each other.
So I have a wardrobe of clothes, and drawers of lingerie which she ignores and which I try not to be too up front about.
Are we both happy? Yes mostly. Is it ideal for both of us? No, but it is a compromise that we must accept if we are to carry on together.
My balance is that I type this in panties and a camisole and size 14 shorts with a man’s t shirt and I feel comfortable and know I am femme underneath it all. This allows me to be who I want to be some of the time although it is not the ideal it is a balance.
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I gave my first wig away Sasha, it was too long for an old bag like me. I gave it to what I hope was a good home.
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I have two swim suits, a one piece and a tankini. I found the latter was excellent when I went for a dip in a pool although I admit if I were able to go out (ie have a suitable hair length and style) I would be looking for boy shorts for bottoms. The tankini drape hides a multitude of sins if your tummy is not that flat. The one piece does not sit right without breasts and with the male stomach shape!
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Thank you Amanda,
Hugs from June of the rapidly declining reputation (I will be bare foot in the park soon!)
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When I was in the chat room today, I thought I would click on my profile. I was amazed to discover I was from Queensland post code 4811! Is there another June? I had a look and there does not seem to be. Is this just a glitch?
The profile is as follows:
I am interested to meet with transgender friends as I think they are beautiful. I am interested to know more the needs of transgender people.
Joined: 1, May, 2013
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I find that if I have to pull the zip up and I can’t reach behind to do it (which is not normally the case) or if the zip is stiff, if I hook a wire coat hanger into the zip handle and use that to pull up the zip. It is a simple step to remove the coat hanger hook from the zip.
Mind you this only works if the zip handle has a hole!
I find slipping the zipped up dress over my head can be problematic if I have my breast forms in if the dress is fitted around the waist.
June
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Hi Amanda,
I hope you do not mind but I thought I would give feedback.
The new chat rooms are great, I like the video aspect. What I don’t think works that well is that to do a video chat one must go to another room. So if A is chatting to B and A has a web cam and then wants to also chat to C who has a web cam too, they go to the video lounge. By definition this is for those with web cams and not for those not using them although one can be in there without a cam.
It would seem better if we could video and chat without video in the one room. I cannot see the point of a separate video chat room!
June
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How do I find the poll? I have clicked on everything I can see on the page and there seem to be no hyperlinks.
June
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Chicken winger here too.
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I do my bra up behind my back, spinning it around tends to stretch it or so I read.
Eye liner I gave up on a long time ago, mascara, I just need to clean my spectacles as I seem to get more on them than the eyelashes.
My main security problem has been lipstick on my coffee mug. I forget occasionally which prompts a bit of questioning by her indoors. Ah well.
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Hmm, that would make a good story title.
What Caty did next!
Quote:I’ve also mused in these forums in the past, about if Caty did go fishing and was about to net the “fish of a lifetime” and as she leaned over the side, she either lost a breast form or her wig fell into the water.TGR POLL
Which would you net first??????
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My first love was Geoffrey and we were both 14 or 15 at the time. I think it was when I saw him in a school fashion parade for charity which involved dressing in the other sexes clothing. He wore baby doll PJs and he looked gorgeous. We were a couple in secret for a few years, but the social realities of the time meant we were expected to get marry and have children. Eventually we drifted apart. We both have a wife and children now with no regrets about that and there is nothing either would or could do to change what has happened. We both feel fortunate in our lives.
Recently we go reacquainted and became friends again. It is nice to meet over coffee and talk about school and things we did when growing up. Thank goodness for facebook bringing us together again. I do not have any other friends from my school days.
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I tend to agree with you Amanda, I sometimes send emails to new members from WA saying hello and welcoming them but almost never get a reply. If the system encourages replies then I am all for it. Make it a reward for involvement.
Hugs
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I watched that yesterday and was quite surprised. Oh to look that good. Ah well back to the drawing board, or was it the make up table?