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but I also found this:
“At [Australia] launch Netflix will offer new original series such as Bloodlines, Bojack Horseman, and Marco Polo, while Nine’s Stan will offer Breaking Bad spin-off series Better Call Saul, and Golden Globe-winning Amazon series Transparent. “
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Jennifer: It is an online series viewable
here
http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00I3MPZUW/or elsewhere
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from her blog
“Finally after 10 months in Hong Kong where I was stranded as illegal and liable to be detained, the UN and The New Zealand Government accepted my request to be sent as refugee and asylum to Auckland, and since Juny [2014] I arrived to this land to live in the refugee camp in Mangere for about three months.
Now I am again free, as another person in New Zealand, there are not labels on me, I am a woman, I am Eliana.
And now I am starting my life… with hope and peace.”
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From what I know, I feel this program explained the topic well in the short 14:41 length. About Seahorse NSW it IS a secret group, for the reasons explained. The fact that it exists is not secret but most everything else about it is, meeting place etc.
I personally feel cross dressing must be very challenging in that keeping it all a secret no doubt is very stressful.
The program also showed the challenges of some relationships and cross-dressing. I would suggest it’s a good use of 14 minutes to view the show.
And guess what Cross-dressers DON’T eat babies – The things you learn from SBS2-TV *smiles*
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Jennifer:
I am glad you have researched well so you can be happy with your decision. As you will now know the surgeons in Australia us the penile inversion technique, so depth is totally dependent on penile size. Most other surgeons, including your choice, do not use this somewhat outdated technique.
Penile inversion, has the disadvantages of depth totally related to penile size, and it also places the vagina in the wrong position (too high up).
Most surgeons (except those in Australia) use the skin graft technique, using the skin from the scrotum to make the vagina walls. The hairs are removed of course.
For a good explanation about this technique you may find the following pages useful
http://www.chet-plasticsurgery.com/?page_id=684Good Luck (‘Chok Dee’ – in Thai) with your surgery.
I have written a guide (Updated Jan 2014) for patients in Thailand, it is centered on patients of the Chettawut Plastic Surgery Center, but you may find some of the information useful for you as well.
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You may find this helpful from a website:
The Discreet/Occasional Wearer: Will elect to insert paper stuffing into the inner cap of wig( keeps the shape) and cover the outer portion with a hair net, (wig net) then the wig will be placed inside of the plastic container and/or box in which it was purchased. Then the package is placed within a drawer. This method affords privacy and in the event of long time storage it aids in keeping your wig free of dust. Always make sure your selection is completely dry before storing in this manner.
Long wigs, yes, braid them before you store them ’cause they are a b***h to brush out
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Hello Angela:
For make up tips and or a lesson in make up I suggest you find a professional make up artist, someone who works in theatre or film or TV.
They are the ones experienced in making people up. The sales assistants at product stores, while not bad, are sales assistants and not professional make up artists – so their prime goal is to sell you products.
A professional make up artist uses products that they think are the best products for them and do not have any allegiance to any one brand – AND they will not try and sell you anything.
In addition they can tell you WHY certain things are done, and when you understand this it makes it easier to understand make up in general I feel.
You may find a DVD produced by a professional make up artist helpful, a link is here (link)
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Follow up story..
BANGKOK: — Thammasat University’s student activist, Sarun “Aum Neko” Chuichai, who earned attention in both Thai and international media by replacing the Thai national flag with a black flag at the university’s Rangsit campus, expressed her unhappiness on Facebook for the Bangkok Post’s decision to refer to her as “Mr. Saran.”
details here
http://bangkok.coconuts.co/2013/12/16/transgender-student-provocateur-unhappy-medias-use-mr
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I think NOT reading a manual for devices is not gender specific. When my friends ask for help, I firstly ask them “Did you read the manual?” – I usually just get a blank stare in return.
I feel consumers seem to think there is no need to learn how to use their new device. Often things are simplified enough so that works MOST of the time. But to enjoy all the possible features of the product a read of the manual can help.
But when there are issues its often easier to ask a friend than ‘OMG having to find and read a manual’ *smiles*.
Manufactures don’t help with there often not being a printed manual, only an electronic one – and in this case if the monitor is not working – how can you read the manual??
I think the Original subject title of this thread could be another topic of debate *smiles*
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DHGate is a shopping forum similar to eBay, AliExpress, where many individual sellers group to sell their items. DHGate has a ESCROW system where the funds are not released to the seller until the purchaser has either confirmed they received the items, or after a certain time after the purchase has occurred.
There is a complaints department.
One way to avoid disappointment to to look up the sellers history before purchase.What is their satisfaction rating from buyers, what are some of the feedback comments.
I find unless the % is 98% or higher, I usually look for another seller of the same item.I have made 94 separate purchases with vendors listed on DHGate since Feb 2010 and I have only had 2 experiences where an item delivered was not as described (A camera filter described as being Multicoated when it was not). These were resolved by a return of some of my paid fee.
It is unfortunate that not all sellers are perhaps as good as they could be, but this can be the case anywhere.
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You will find many other forum posts to answer your question, but for a Gender Diverse knowledgeable GP you could contact:
Dr Fiona Bisshop
CENTRAL BRUNSWICK MEDICAL CENTRE
http://www.cbmc.com.au/Doctor2.phpI did.
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Yes I would suggest your Phone, Camera and an internet communication device. Skype is great (and not expensive) for talking to people back home even if they have no computer. If you do want to use a GSM mobile phone I suggest you get a SIM card in the country you are going to – and not to use the roaming of your AU ones – its much much cheaper.
If you like reading, take books in English perhaps, Any special favorite munchies (although you can even buy Tim Tams in Thailand now).
Of course any prescribed medication together with a copy of that prescription.
Make 2 copies of all your important documents (Passport, credit cards (both sides) etc. Pack one in your checked in baggage, keep the other separate, and/or leave a copy with friends here.
Inform DFAT of your travel details – so they can contact you in an emergency
https://www.orao.dfat.gov.au/orao/weborao.nsf/Homeform?OpenformIf your travel is to Thailand I suggest to take AU ca$h as I find the exchange rate there is sooo much better than available here. Do be aware that many exchange places in Thailand will not accept AUD$ Travelers checks.
A calendar page of the time you are there to put on the wall. Bedside clock (or use your phone).
If this trip is for surgery then a designer hospital gown is an easy thing to wear during recovery http://www.hospitalgowns.com/
Most other things you can obtain (In Thailand). You can buy power plug adapters there for the AU (Type I) plugs at about 60bt ($2) – voltage is similar to AU at 220V 50Hz
Have a grand Trip
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The question asked has been answered previously but to go on to details for artificial implants…
Yes these are not for life – each manufacturer states a period and as has been mentioned previously in the forum, this is about 10 years. What this means is they are recommended be replaced at this time.
The manufacturers will often recommend ultrasounds first at 3 years then 2 yearly to check for any breaks or leakage.
I suggest research the brand of artificial implant in depth (if that is what is being considered). Each implant has a traceable number so it can be identified.
There are many types of implant with different shapes, surfaces and implant content – clients should be aware of what these differences will make and choose whats best for them.
The way the implants are inserted in the body are many. Some produce less scaring than others. Other choices are whether to have above or below the muscle. The wise member will research all of this.
Each surgeon will have their own recommended after care routine and it is in the clients best interest to follow it. Not doing so can result in lots of internal scar tissue and ‘hardening’ of the breast area. The after-care routine can involve quite forceful massaging for 30 minutes a day at the beginning.
The recovery: clients may find that they cannot sleep anyway but on their backs for some months, and that they get tired and have to lie down during the day. Also some report back pain, as the added weight of the implants are new for the body.
These as well as the usual risks for any surgery and general anesthetic all have to be considered and judged by the client.
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Australian Government Guidelines on the Recognition of Sex and Gender
Individuals may identify and be recognized within the community as a gender other than the sex or gender they were assigned at birth, as intersex, or as an indeterminate sex and/or gender. This should be recognized and reflected in their personal records.
Details here
This is for all Federal Government agencies.
Excerpt:
“What evidence of their sex and/or gender do people need to provide?
Australian Government departments and agencies will recognise any one of the following as sufficient evidence of sex and/or gender:
a statement from a Registered Medical Practitioner or a Registered Psychologist (general registration)
a valid Australian Government travel document, such as a valid passport, which specifies their preferred genderor
a state or territory birth certificate; or recognised details of a certificate showing a change of gender”
I understand that the NSW RTA (Transport NSW – yes?) does not list Sex on the drivers licenses, but I may be wrong. You would have to research what NSW State regulations are about this. Here in Queensland (that does list Sex on Drivers Licenses), a letter from a Psych is required for change.
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Transitioning and Heath Professionals
Joanne:I can tell you of my experience and you can make your own choice.
I also started with the Brunswick Medical Center. I used my female name when making the reservation and attended all sessions as female. Dress was day casual and NOT clubbing outfits. As at that time Medicare card (there is no title on the card by the way) was in my previous name, I just told the Doctor and the counter staff that I would like my female name to be used.
I saw Fiona Bissop there and I was very happy with the services I received, friendly and understanding and very professional.
I asked for referrals to an ENDO and a Psych and received those on my first visit. All 3 of these health professional were informed by each other of my progress.
The Psych I saw was Helen Hoey and the sessions over 2 years went smoothly and there were no issues.
I have hard of others attending health professionals in attire not their inner gender and have heard stories that they believed their progress was slow was because of that.
Perhaps that is somewhat understandable as the health professionals have no visual clue to the clients ‘dedication’ or commitment I guess. The Psych really all wants to know if the client can survive – ie employment and in society in general in their new gender. Changing name, wearing attire of your gender all help with this perhaps. What they wish to avoid is the client being alone, full of regret, jobless and isolated from society.
The name thingy is a pain and my advice would be to change that as soon as you can. Once you have the change of name certificate Medicare card name can be changed, and now if you receive documentation from a Health Professional you can also have your registered gender changed with all Federal Govt Departments. QLD Drivers license (one of the few that still record sex on the card) can be changed with a letter from the Psych.
http://atsaq.com can help if you have other questions about other administrative things (centerlink etc)
I was happy with the services I received from all the health professionals here in the Brisbane area. Do keep in mind that they are there to assist you with everything and that you are a client. If you can, be clear with your goals and have a positive attitude, I suggest. Being confrontational, or not having respect for the health professionals may not help your progress.
